Статья «Eye Contact»

Is eye contact really important?

Have you ever thought about how often and how well you use eye contact or nonverbal means of communication while talking to people? Eye contact is an important part of nonverbal communication between humans and even between animals. Although people frequentlysay that the eyes are the window to the soul but what can we see there?

Nowadays eye contact can be really influential. Firstly, when you are in the limelight, your eye contact will be an appealto the audience and you can use it if you want to get on well with different people. Secondly, if a woman wants to show to a man that she likes him, she will flirt with him. She needs to recycle eye contact three times and only after that a man, conscious that he was paid attention to, is going to get the hint. One more argument for the right eye contact is the ability to use it at the exam or a job interview. If you can keep confident and genuine eye contact in front of your examiner or your employer, it means that youare entitled to success and respect.

However, a survey shows that some people consider eye contact verypersonal, intimate or rude. In some countries it is even better to avoid eye contact if you want to stay safe and sound. I disagree with it, because if we look away every 7-10 seconds whilewe are having a face-to-face conversation, a person, we are talking to, will feel rather comfortable.

In conclusion, I would like to say that we can conceal our true feelings and emotions under the mask of indifference, but our eyes, full of happiness, despair, sincerityor love, will tell people about our inner world.

Адрес публикации: https://www.prodlenka.org/metodicheskie-razrabotki/520331-statja-eye-contact